I grew up in a suburb of Chicago in the 50s. My Dad built the house I grew up in himself and I'm told we moved in a couple months after I was born. I lived there through the 6th grade. My Dad was then transferred to Belgium for 3 years and again we lived in a suburb of Brussels. When we moved back to the US we lived in the same town, but bought a new house. After college I continued to live in nearby suburbs for about 40 years. I never wanted to live in the city proper (Chicago) as I am not a fan of parking on the street, the noise, the crowds, the traffic etc. When I retired I moved to a gated community in South Carolina with about 3000 people. It is cut from pine forest in the foothills of the Blue Ridge mountains. Once outside the gate we are in the country - hay fields, and cattle grazing where there is not forest. Town is about 9 miles away for the grocery, drug store, restaurants etc. I always preferred more open space than a city allows.