swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Hello Everyone, Let me start off by saying this year started off crappy lol. On January 3/09 I was informed by my Fiancée/wife to pack up and get out of her house. Reason still not known why and yes I've asked more than once why. Still no answer back. Maybe it's for the best,maybe not. Just have to wait and see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S t e v e Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Hello Everyone' date=' Let me start off by saying this year started off crappy lol. On January 3/09 I was informed by my Fiancée/wife to pack up and get out of her house. Reason still not known why and yes I've asked more than once why. Still no answer back. Maybe it's for the best,maybe not. Just have to wait and see.[/quote'] sorry to here that mate, hope it all gets sorted out...chin up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DanvillRob Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 On January 3/09 I was informed by my Fiancée/wife to pack up and get out of her house. Reason still not known why and yes I've asked more than once why. Still no answer back. WOW! Both of 'em ... on the same day too!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Author Share Posted January 5, 2010 WOW! Both of 'em ... on the same day too!! no,just one. She wanted me to refer to her as the wife but we were only engaged. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daveinspain Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 no' date='just one. She wanted me to refer to her as the wife but we were only engaged.[/quote'] She probably did you a big favor... Unless there is something you did that's really funky to deserve it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Author Share Posted January 5, 2010 Did something to deserve it? cooked ,cleaned,looked after her kids, did whatever she wanted me to do without hesitation and always made sure supper was on the table when she got home from work. I was a very affectionate, loving and very supportive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DanvillRob Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Did something to deserve it? cooked ' date='cleaned,looked after her kids, did whatever she wanted me to do without hesitation and always made sure supper was on the table when she got home from work. I was a very affectionate, loving and very supportive. [/quote'] Then REALLY get back at her... start calling her just the Fiancee!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepblue Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Thats rough. Im so sorry to hear that. Some woman are hard to figure out my friend....I wish you all the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Author Share Posted January 5, 2010 thanks Deepblue. I agree,some women are way to difficult to figure out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thin_Lizzy Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Bad news Man. Hope things get sorted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riffster Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 And if it does not get sorted things have a way to work for the better keeping the right attitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Author Share Posted January 5, 2010 Thanks guys. Maybe if one door closes than one will open. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Author Share Posted January 5, 2010 hey it sucks though that I gave her $2100 and bought her a $1000 sewing machine for Christmas. What a fool I am Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hector Arcadius Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Very sorry to hear such bad news mate... As far as I'm concerned you're a cool and stand-up guy, certainly deserving an explanation at least... I sincerely hope and wish however things turn out, that they are for your own good... Stay tough brother... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thundergod Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Sorry to hear aboout it man... hope you are doing fine in your new situation. Things will get better soon, you'll see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tim Plains Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 Man, I am really sorry to hear this; you're a stand up guy. Consider yourself fortunate that if it wasn't meant to be, you don't have to go through the aggravation of a divorce. All the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Author Share Posted January 5, 2010 Not much I can do about things. I've had to move to a different city and my job is in Cambridge which is an hour away. I'll have to look for work here but the job market here really sucks. I can always lower my standards to whatever I can do work wise. If I have to sling burgers I will. Money has to be my number one priority right now, if I can't make an adequate amount then I'll need to sell some stuff. Money for my diabetes supplies is what is the most important. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
retrosurfer1959 Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 hey it sucks though that I gave her $2100 and bought her a $1000 sewing machine for Christmas. What a fool I am First condolences hope everything works out for the best whatever that turns out to be. But as to your recent gifts to her well you may have gotten off cheap $ 3,100 is not all that much compared to splitting everything 50/50 after a few years of marriage. A good friend of mine has a divorce that will be final on Friday his settlement was 400k and they were married 3 years and she quit her job and finished a Master degree while he supported her and a child from a previous marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Author Share Posted January 5, 2010 Oh I agree, It's not so bad . Better than 400k lol ouch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thermionik Posted January 5, 2010 Share Posted January 5, 2010 . If'n all it costs you is $2100 and a one-K sewing machine, man you got off lightly. In my 57 years I've had two divorces where the lawyers took me to the cleaners. Both times we owned property, both times I ended up not doing so. Now I'm up to my eyeballs in pure sub-prime shit. But I'm happy. You will be too. Promise yah..... . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 5, 2010 Author Share Posted January 5, 2010 I got off real easy so far. She hasn't even got back to me on anything. Hate to say it but it's time for this cowboy to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 6, 2010 Author Share Posted January 6, 2010 Another update. She got back to me but not with really any good news. She said facebook has to go . That has been deleted now. I'm only on this forum now. We talked a bit lastnight and according to her, she loves me but doesn't think it's good enough. I've tried my best that I can from over an hour away from her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tazzboy Posted January 6, 2010 Share Posted January 6, 2010 Sounds like this women has issue. I would suggest not having anything more to do with and cut your losses on this one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cruznolfart Posted January 6, 2010 Share Posted January 6, 2010 Wear your scars with pride and remember where you got them. Now, up wi' yer socks and step off! [YOUTUBE] [/YOUTUBE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swleary Posted January 6, 2010 Author Share Posted January 6, 2010 Yes I agree that she has issues and so do I.It always takes two to tango. I think I've been more than my fair in trying to apologize. Have never heard her once say she was sorry. All I keep hearing is that I don't see the big picture in it all. Yes I have seen the big picture and tried to accommodate to what she wants. I even tried to take the blame for everything and her answer "I don't believe you, all your doing is telling me what I want to hear". Ya after a guy sits there balling his eyes out (yes I said it) and telling you how he feels . Can't make things right if it's falling on deaf ears. She was complaining this morning that if I leave,she will lose money from her parents company who we do customer service for. I was doing her job three days a week. That equals out to about $800 less a month. Oh and I was cooking,cleaning, dishes,laundry,looking after her kids and doing my own job on top of things. Today I really had enough. I called up U-Haul up ,got a truck and will be on my merry way. I can't say when because she will probably be searching this forum for anything to use against me. Btw,first thing loaded in to my car on Sunday night....My LP lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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