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Kinda funny how I've posted plenty of times about my Epi' date=' and my Chinese fakes, and Mr. Nelson never had an ill word to say towards me... of course, I have never claimed any of my guitars to be anything more than what they are. Wonder if there's any coorelation to that? :-k

 

Granted, I may not agree with everything you post, or the way in which you post it at times, but I do at least get where you're coming from, and can see the knowledge behind your posts. Sometimes. Other times, you're just being humorously mean... and I think those are the posts I like best, actually. It's like watching "House", without all the medical talk, LOL.[/quote']

 

Who's worse? An abusive bully or a person who sucks up to an abusive bully?

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Who's worse? An abusive bully or a person who sucks up to an abusive bully?

 

Even a faceless bully living thousands of miles away and too cowardly to even post his own name and location can cause the so-called Stockholm Syndrome. "This guy never trashed me...maybe we can be friends!"

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Yeah. I think it is wrong what this person does.

 

You can tell them they are cool and agree with them' date=' do whatever you want.

 

But the more of us that stand up to their ignorant harrassment the better.

 

See how you would feel if harrassed by him/them. I don't think you'd like it either.

 

I'm sure they love to hear you praise their worthyness. You are just validating them, encouraging them to continue in their behavior.

 

No other forum that I visit has people like that on there. They get kicked off.

 

No wonder they call us delusional sheep. If we don't react to their ignorance we are just like they say.

 

I'm not going to take their abuse. If you want to, okay with me. If you want to be secure in your complacence while they don't harrass you, and not stand up for the other members that they do harrass, do it. No one can tell you what to do. You do what is in your heart.

 

These guys are wrong and something is wrong with them. They prey on people they call delusional sheep. This is easy to see. But for some of us it is intolerable. So we moderate our own forum.

 

We won't stop calling them out on their harrassment, even if they enjoy it.

 

Duffy[/quote']

If you leave yourself open to bring picked on, you get picked on. If you can't stand up for yourself, and in this environment that means defend your position with valid arguments, not whining... then you get picked on more. I said reading Nelson's posts was like watching House... Like House, Nelson is most often quite rude and inconsiderate in HOW he says what he says, but it is generally backed by fact. If there's anything I hate, it is censorship in the interest of political correctness. I like Nelson mainly because he doesn't hold back, he speaks his mind. There is a lot to be said for that in today's world. Everybody is so damned concerned with not hurting anyones feelings or offending their beliefs, no matter how ridiculous, that we have turned into a society of little panzy whiny babies. Frankly, it disgusts me. At one point in time, if someone slapped you across the face, it was followed by a duel to defend your honor. Nowadays, somebody slaps you across the face, you run home, cry to mommy, call a lawyer, and sue them for emotional damages. It's pathetic.

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He lost his own credibility by constantly prefacing his comments with phrases such as "You are obviously clueless....". If he wishes to be heard and understood, debasing the listener is not a good strategy. And doing whatever he can to keep someone on this forum from buying a modern Epiphone guitar is not a noble cause. Any of us can join any forum dedicated to a certain brand name and send out repeated posts saying "Your [fill in product here] is pure garbage". He has no particular talent in persuading people. He can only abuse people.

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If you leave yourself open to bring picked on' date=' you get picked on. If you can't stand up for yourself, and in this environment that means defend your position with valid arguments, not whining... then you get picked on more. I said reading Nelson's posts was like watching House... Like House, [b']Nelson is most often quite rude and inconsiderate in HOW he says what he says, but it is generally backed by fact. [/b]If there's anything I hate, it is censorship in the interest of political correctness. I like Nelson mainly because he doesn't hold back, he speaks his mind. There is a lot to be said for that in today's world. Everybody is so damned concerned with not hurting anyones feelings or offending their beliefs, no matter how ridiculous, that we have turned into a society of little panzy whiny babies. Frankly, it disgusts me. At one point in time, if someone slapped you across the face, it was followed by a duel to defend your honor. Nowadays, somebody slaps you across the face, you run home, cry to mommy, call a lawyer, and sue them for emotional damages. It's pathetic.

 

If by "fact" you mean "insulting devisive commentary", then you are correct.

Personally, I've never seen him back ANYTHING with cold hard facts...not even a citation of some sort.

But I dont doubt his knowledge. I doubt his motives.

 

Also, your comment on censorship and political correctness is way off the mark as usual. This is a free forum owned by a company, not mandated or owned by a government agency. This is Epiphone's house, and if Greg or anyone else came into my house and started talking smack like that, I'd knock him to the ground before he finished his sentence. Believe it. Dont give me or anyone else that censorship/political correctness crap just because you cant behave yourself in a public arena. Thats nothing more than a sorry excuse to deny civility and courtesey to others. People that spout that angsty garbage dont deserve the rights afforded to them. Grow up.

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Generation Zero,

 

I have no beef with you. Peace dude.

 

I don't think you have it right though with these guys. I'm not whining, I'm standing up for myself and others and thinking about what newbies and even old members must think. I'm not running home to anyone. I'm confronting them.

 

I'd stand up for my honor any time or place against these characters, but they hide behind the curtain of the internet, they are untouchable and use that to antagonize, insult, and harrass other people who want to carry on productive discussions.

 

Also, I find no humor in Nelson's comments. There isn't meant to be any. Ask him, he'll tell you. This dude has a disorder, a compulsive aggressive disorder of some kind, I'm not a psychiatrist and don't have a license to diagnose anyone, but I can tell when someone isn't right and these dudes aren't right.

 

They are predatory. You don't see that aparently and I don't know why; but that is your perspective and I can respect that. I don't see it your way and I'm not going to take their abuse. They'll get it right back dude, just like you said it used to be. No running and hiding, no sucking up to the bullies. I'll face them. And I bet they can't even hold a note to the average forum member.

 

These dudes are sick man, and they need to know it. They need to get help instead of running away from their problems and continuing to compulsively engage in their unacceptable behavior.

 

Who even wants to ask a stupid question with these predators hanging from the rafters?

 

It is pitiful that this potentially great forum is corrupted by such indignance and aggression.

 

This could be a great Epiphone forum like a lot of the other forums.

 

Say what you will Gen 0, and feel free; you are not indignant or aggressive. You just express your thoughts intelligently and with respect. A lot of us don't see it your way because we have been the objects of their compulsive aggression. People don't like to be treated like trash. These guys are trash that need to be thrown out and it ain't gonna happen, so they will have to take the heat.

 

Sorry but true.

 

Duffy

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Yer F'in nuts Neslon. Plus you are obviously ignorant. Your assumptions suck. Your attitude sucks. You wouldn't last long in a face to face situation.

 

You bully people around and insult them. You think it's comical but those you attack don't dude. You are an a** h***.

 

I don't visit any other forums that tolerate people like you. You would be gone quicker than you'd think. But if you are as enlightened as you think you are you already know that and that's why you plague this forum.

 

Who needs your s***? Have you asked yourself that?

 

I agree that you gloat over your success at pissing people off' date=' as attested by your last ignorant uncultured post that reveals once again your total lack of class. You missed something somewhere dude, probably a long time ago, back in your formative years, and now you are just going thru your mental illness in bliss. Get help dude. Do yourself a favor, not us.

 

Duffy[/quote']

 

Why you going Fubar on Monsieur Nelson..........seems like a knowledgable decent guy to me...........and he doesn't charge for his wisdom!!!:-

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Why you going Fubar on Monsieur Nelson..........seems like a knowledgable decent guy to me...........and he doesn't charge for his wisdom!!!:-

 

Yo Fubar..... How's it goin??

 

some friendly advice here, your suspended username of fubar carries the same IP address history as your current username. I wouldnt try to escalate the current situation any further, or rehash your past situation with TWANG..

 

Enjoy the forum

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Why you going Fubar on Monsieur Nelson..........seems like a knowledgable decent guy to me...........and he doesn't charge for his wisdom!!!:-

 

 

 

Yes' date=' over the years it seems he's amassed an incomprehensible amount of.............

 

 

 

..............unsubstantiated personal opinions.

 

 

Yes everyone, get your free bottles of [i']Nelson's Hot Air[/i] here. Each one comes with a complementary personal insult written by the great man himself.

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Yes' date=' over the years it seems he's amassed an incomprehensible amount of.............

 

 

 

..............unsubstantiated personal opinions.

 

 

Yes everyone, get your free bottles of [i']Nelson's Hot Air[/i] here. Each one comes with a complementary personal insult written by the great man himself.

 

 

 

Let's just move-on..... I think every point that can be made has already been presented.

 

We all need to remember this site is for musicians of all ages, so use some discression before hitting the "Post" button

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Ha ha! This forum has really gone to hell, if this is the kind of stuff I'm reading after being away for awhile.

 

An Epiphone forum, for me, was to discuss the products they sell, have sold, might sell... whatever.

 

These two whiners about modern Epis make me laugh. Why do they care so much? Too much time on your hands guys? How about playing more guitar?

 

I've gotten a lot of good tips and information on this forum, and manage to avoid the silly spats, but I wanted to chime in on this one.

 

I bet these two goofs (gooves?) ... who is it, Nelson and Marx-something... I bet these ranty idiots are just two other guys we used to have to tolerate, but they're using different names now. I wonder... are they teenagers? (no offense to teenagers, but stuff like I'm reading here doesn't usually occupy grown-up people with more to do).

 

Have fun everyone. There are still some useful and informative topics here, I'm sure. I'll keep reading.

 

I hope your forum gets back to being the fun, easy-going thing it used to be. These guys might wear themselves out and move on to ranting about other pointless causes. If folks here are interested (pro and con) in Chinese Epis, then we'll just keep writing about them.... again, pros and cons. But I don't think we'll go away. This is forum with that attracts different folks with different tastes, after all.

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Whether or not this thead was initially about Mr. Nelson and MarxBros (and I'm not so sure that it was) it is now and you fellas must know that they are both laughing hysterically at your hand-wringing and huff.

 

You have confirmed to them that thier tactics are a grand success!

 

That is exactly what they want and why they post as they do -- to rabble-rouse for kicks -- and why Nelson changed his username from his well known name used here previously. They both are knowledgeable but you have to wade through their spew to find anything helpful so as forum contributors, well....

 

Nothing on this forum is as serious as playing music (or shouldn't be to you). So, why not just sit back and laugh at their game/expense and needle them in return when/if you feel like it -- it's what I do. With a little sly technique, I have found that they will put out a lot of effort sometimes just to be so confrontational. And guess who's laughing last?

 

Hit every BLUE NOTE baaaby..., I'm going to play on:-"

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Yo Fubar..... How's it goin??

 

some friendly advice here' date=' your suspended username of fubar carries the same IP address history as your current username. I wouldnt try to escalate the current situation any further, or rehash your past situation with TWANG..

 

Enjoy the forum

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Bonjour Monsieur le Duanne, no comprhende this Fubar dude you refer to, and anyone who wants to ban the Vancouver International airport ip is certainly free to do so.........in 5 hours I will be enjoying your company on Oahu and taking in the ProBowl..........as for Snafu, it is my understanding there are others up north he has offended and are in touch with him as we speak............:-

 

Arriva******h

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Amen, Mr. Lister. I view the forum occasionally, get some good tips and sometimes say Hi to a few folks. It'll probably be a few weeks until I'm back...

 

... but I recall one of those two cats bragged about 1700 posts here. Ha ha! Is that supposed to be a good thing? This forum must be a huge part of their lives. No wonder they like seeing us react. This sort of thing must be their equivalent of going out to a party or a show.

 

Well, that's enough from me.

 

It's been amusing, if not informative, this time.

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I'm glad we are standing up to these uneducated' date=' undisciplined, delinquents and treating them like they deserve.

 

They are getting away with this because we can't confront them face to face and settle the issue, one on one.

 

As for quality, anyway, Gibson has fallen way behind from the old days and Heritage has taken up the banner and is producing way better guitars, looking at the same tradition.

 

Also, other guitar makers are making way better guitars, like ESP. Even Peavey makes great guitars. But Epi's have an aura all their own that is Gibsonesque and affordable.

 

I have heard many reports that the Epi's often play, feel, sound, and look better thant the Gibson counterpart. I have played Epi's that sound better than Gibson counterparts.

 

Plus a lot of people like to hot rod their less expensive guitars and turn them into works of art that they are really proud of.

 

As to ignoring them, I say keep up the posting and defend our points of view.

 

Think about what newbies think when they come to this site or post on the site........ The atmosphere is contaminated by these crude, offensive, has beens, that drop from the rafters

like rat s***, or blood sucking vampires; infectious and self serving.

 

They are definitely not here on a positive note to help anyone out or try to give acceptable advice, they just harrass and antagonize people to their own obvious delight and will continue to do so.

 

We need to get the word out to any newbies or passersby that we are on to them and let them see that there is a perspective here that we have regarding these ignorant fools. They know what they are doing is wrong and like some juvinile delinquents they return to their behavior compulsively, automatically, unscrupulously.

 

The facts deny most of the stuff they say. Gibson is far from what it was and the prices are not consistent with the drop in quality. For the bang for your buck you can get a way better guitar for far less, and one that looks almost exactly like a Gibson. The copies are only slightly different, giving them legal rights to produce good looking guitars and taking the monopoloy of the generic shape away from Gibson and Fender. I think this is what really irritates these dudes. They think that everything has to be American made or it's junk, which we all know is not true. Guitar making has progressed immensely in the Far East and even in Mexico. There is a very long chain of history behind Spanish guitar making.

 

These guys are antagonists that serve no useful purpose and are has beens who think they are something above the regular guy. They insult people by insinuating they don't have the money to buy quality guitars, even though they know a lot of people don't have a lot of money and that a lot of people are losing their jobs and others are fearing to lose their jobs and they are tight with their spending. It doesn't take a genius to know this, not to insinuate that these uneducated characters are geniuses by any means. They are crude, stupid, foolish, trouble makers that wouldn't last on the street for more than a couple days. They would be eliminated from the club, stopped at the door, or even worse if need be. They make use of this avenue of expression to engage in mentally disturbed behavior by insulting and harrassing innocent people. It's a psychological thing like a compulsive aggressive syndrome and I wouldn't be surprised if they have been prescribed medicine by their doctors to help control their inner compulsions but that they refuse to take the medicine. This is common among the crimminally insane.

 

Some people have anti social disorders that control their behavior and cause them to aggressively attack innocent people that they see as easy prey. The proctective barrier of the internet gives them untouchability and they persevere in their aggressive behavior. The forum is not moderated and they exploit that weakness as a means to express their compulsive aggressive behavior and need to degrade people that they like to think are somehow below them. The fact of the matter is that they are the deviants. Despicable deviants engaging in corrupt behavior motivated by diagnosed or undiagnosed mental problems.

 

They are not going to just go away but we need to keep the word out on them and let visitors and the ones they attack know that we are onto their foolish game.

 

Of course we will ignore their posts, but we will see them and can reassure the posters that these jerks are jerks and not to pay attention to them but to sift their threads for the really useful info that they can get from those of us that have useful info to offer, instead of the sorry s*** these uneducated and mannerless fools try to inject.

 

Keep putting the word out.

 

Duffy[/quote']

 

 

 

You sound reasonable... Time to up the medication.

 

 

Honestly...This post reads like the rantings of a person in need of help like valium. Drama queen much?

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Nelson' date=' IMHO, has one big redeeming feature. He can actually be funny, even if the SOB did call me a clown.

 

MarxBros does not have this advantage. He's just a jerk.[/quote']Get all butt hurt over your fake Hagstrom much?

 

Get over it. It IS a cheap, poorly made COPY.

 

 

BTW..where is that thread?=D>

 

Seems to me you do more name calling than the folks you complain about.

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Also' date=' your comment on censorship and political correctness is way off the mark as usual. This is a free forum owned by a company, not mandated or owned by a government agency. This is Epiphone's house, and if Greg or anyone else came into [i']my house[/i] and started talking smack like that, I'd knock him to the ground before he finished his sentence. Believe it. Dont give me or anyone else that censorship/political correctness crap just because you cant behave yourself in a public arena. Thats nothing more than a sorry excuse to deny civility and courtesey to others. People that spout that angsty garbage dont deserve the rights afforded to them. Grow up.

It has nothing to do with me growing up... And I was referring to how this incident mirrors the general thin skin of todays society as a whole, not just here on epiphone's forum. But, if you want to apply the "my house" analogy, I'll play along. This forum is epiphone's "house", not yours, mine, or Nelson's. So, in that respect, we are ALL guests. If I had a bunch of guests in my house, it would be my discretion as to who was and was not welcome. It would not be up to one guest to demand removal of another based on that persons' demeanor. It would be my decision and mine alone as to who to reprimand, or kick out. Personally, I would enjoy the company of a smartass moreso than that of someone who can't take an insult and swing back in kind. When my kids come to me crying about "he called me a name" I tell them to toughen up, it's only words. If they keep whining, they BOTH get time out. So if I was the mod here, I would either tell you all to deal with it, or suspend Nelson AND everyone in here crying about his insults. But that's just me... If epiphone decided to suspend or ban him and him alone, that's their perrogative... It is their house, after all.

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It has nothing to do with me growing up... And I was referring to how this incident mirrors the general thin skin of todays society as a whole' date=' not just here on epiphone's forum. But, if you want to apply the "my house" analogy, I'll play along. This forum is epiphone's "house", not yours, mine, or Nelson's. So, in that respect, we are ALL guests. If I had a bunch of guests in my house, it would be my discretion as to who was and was not welcome. It would not be up to one guest to demand removal of another based on that persons' demeanor. It would be my decision and mine alone as to who to reprimand, or kick out. Personally, I would enjoy the company of a smartass moreso than that of someone who can't take an insult and swing back in kind. When my kids come to me crying about "he called me a name" I tell them to toughen up, it's only words. If they keep whining, they BOTH get time out. So if I was the mod here, I would either tell you all to deal with it, or suspend Nelson AND everyone in here crying about his insults. But that's just me... If epiphone decided to suspend or ban him and him alone, that's their perrogative... It is their house, after all.[/quote']=D> =D> =D> Congrats, you speak truth eloquently, a rare gift these days.

 

I have to question these other well intended posters who at first blush sound reasonable, then they start with the real name calling, spewing more foul stuff than the folks they compalin about ever spewed, & of course then come the physical threats...it becomes clear who the real loons are.

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Whether or not this thead was initially about Mr. Nelson and MarxBros (and I'm not so sure that it was) it is now and you fellas must know that they are both laughing hysterically at your hand-wringing and huff.

 

You have confirmed to them that thier tactics are a grand success!

 

That is exactly what they want and why they post as they do -- to rabble-rouse for kicks -- and why Nelson changed his username from his well known name used here previously. They both are knowledgeable but you have to wade through their spew to find anything helpful so as forum contributors' date=' well....

 

Nothing on this forum is as serious as playing music (or shouldn't be to you). So, why not just sit back and laugh at their game/expense and needle them in return when/if you feel like it -- it's what I do. With a little sly technique, I have found that they will put out a lot of effort sometimes just to be so confrontational. And guess who's laughing last?

 

Hit every BLUE NOTE baaaby..., I'm going to play on:-"

Well said... You just fit everything I have been trying to say concisely into a single post... Here is my requisite "+1"! LOL...

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