I married her for her money. She married me for my good looks. It turned out, we both got screwed. on that deal.
But, we still lasted 23 years. Divorced, now, for 20.
I thought after I got divorced, I might remarry fairly quickly, without a long courtship because I thought (mistakenly, of course) that I "understood" women now, after 23 years of marriage. However, I've found that not only do I not understand women any better than I did in college, but I've also become very picky.
In the last 20 years, I lived with an old college girlfriend for 3+ years, had another couple of 3+ year relationships, had a 4 month GF that told me she wanted to marry me, and right now, I'm 5 months into a thing that I would like to last....
But, there's probably no hope for me.
(Okay! I feel better now to get all that crap off my chest.)