Silenced Fred Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 im done with all the bs here. some people are total d***s, and im done with the harassment from boyvader. im gonna deal with it myself i guess. to those that wanted me gone, you got it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charlie brown Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Wow...what happened?! Sorry, you feel that way, Fred. But, you know what you want/need to do, more than we. Good luck, to you.... CB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrNylon Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Hey Fred for real, don't do that man. Cause of some Jerk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigKahune Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 . Sorry to hear you're leaving. I hope you reconsider and stay. If not - I wish you the best. B) I thought Duane was trying to stay on top the trouble maker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dem00n Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Ah drama.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flight959 Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Just rise above it Fred! Take a break and chill out if your pi55ed off!! Regards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S t e v e Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 don't be a silly billy, their are a few dicks on here that i don't get on with but i stay for the people i DO get on with...it's all good nat, stay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonzoboy Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Don't let them get to you Fred,after all the only thing that you're going to get from an arsehole is $hit and hot air.Life has its ups and downs but we can't let the jerks get to us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DAS44 Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Aww damn Fred, don't be leavin' us! It's one guy being an ***, you're very well liked 'round these parts! I think it's time for some good ol' fashioned vigilante justice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neilpanda Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 but, but, I like you, Fred! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corrosion of conformity Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Aww damn Fred, don't be leavin' us! It's one guy being an ***, you're very well liked 'round these parts! I think it's time for some good ol' fashioned vigilante justice. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grampa Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 I'm not sure why I'm responding to this post, I don't even know why I read it, some kind of morbid curiosity I suppose, but taking things personally in a "virtual" reality is insane. "Fuzzy Fred" can say any outrageous and even libelous thing about "grampa" and it will mean nothing. Those aren't real people. Don't take any of personally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Searcy Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 I'm not sure why I'm responding to this post, I don't even know why I read it, some kind of morbid curiosity I suppose, but taking things personally in a "virtual" reality is insane. "Fuzzy Fred" can say any outrageous and even libelous thing about "grampa" and it will mean nothing. Those aren't real people. Don't take any of personally. Why's everyone down on d!cks all of a sudden? I'm starting to feel unwanted around here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy R Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Fred, One of the main reasons I started posting on this forum was I realized it was a great way to improve my communication skills and how I deal with people. On my very first post asking about a bridge on my Explorer E/2 there was a guy that was adamant that the bridge i was asking about was aftermarket. I knew it wasn't and I started to get a little irritated but over all kept my cool and Duane actually joined in the post and was helpful not only in helping me find an answer to my question but also how I was responding back to the other person. This really struck me in a way that I realized that I could benefit from posting here in how I respond and deal with people/situations at work and life in general. I have always had a reputation as being hard to get along with in a team environment and being very domineering as well a brash. I never liked that perception and have really worked hard to change it over the last couple of years. I saw this forum as an opportunity to work on these skills and figured if I couldn't participate and communicate with a diverse group of people on a forum about guitars I would never improve at work. I think during my time here I have dealt with things pretty well. I have also made some mistakes. Tried my best to admit them and move on. I have found it to be a good challenge to try to diffuse situations where I may have made somebody angry either through accident or misunderstanding and vice-versa. I also do the reverse in that when someone angers or annoys me I try not to get mad but instead figure out a way to diffuse the situation and make the other person think about there actions and what they are trying to achieve by doing what they are doing. I have found this works about 99% of the time and the other 1% I just ignore until it goes away. In the end communication is the key to a lot of situations you will encounter in life and how well you succeed with personal relationships, friends, coworkers, careers etc... I cannot stress this enough!!! Communication, Listening and hearing past the "I wants" that people tend to use in their communication ( especially personal relationships) and finding out what the real " What I need is" will have a huge impact on your life, career(s) and relationships!!!! Sincere Regards, Andy By the way I just had my bi-annual review at work a few weeks ago. My manager told me that I have made the biggest change in regards to communications within our global team and that he was amazed at how much I have changed and how much impact it has had and wished the rest of the team would follow suit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fl00dsm0k3 Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 thats what steve said Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S t e v e Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 thats what steve said you mean about going over to the ibanez forum?, ignore that thread i was just trolling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cookieman15061 Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Well Nate I'll miss your posts and comments but if go on to do something more usefull will your time good for u. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tazzboy Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Nate you just have learn to use the ignore function on this forum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damian Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 you mean about going over to the ibanez forum?, ignore that thread i was just trolling Yeah, um, come back and troll like a pro.....Bookeeper's Son is a BAD troller.....He ain't funny at all... Actually, he's offensive....On the Epi Lounge as well..........We miss you STEVEO, you ROCK !!!!!!!! [thumbup] .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daveinspain Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Fred should stay... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
retrosurfer1959 Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Don't let your own perv stalker chase you off - just use it as practice for someday when your famous, just think than you'll already know how to deal with it when you just have to ignore the strange and sad little people in the world like Boy Vader. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fl00dsm0k3 Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 you mean about going over to the ibanez forum?, ignore that thread i was just trolling i thought that was you just being you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Searcy Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 You know.... haveing your own stalker is preaty Rock and Roll. All the big stars have one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tman5293 Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Wow this thread is fail. He'll be back next week. This isn't the first time he's "left the forum". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest farnsbarns Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 Fuzzy, if you go the morons win. Since the morons usually do win these days no one would hold it against you but I believe you should stand high and be the bigger man. You'll be glad you did. BTW, is it boyvader harrassing you? PM me if you prefer not to discuss it in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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